I first read this book 16years ago! It changed who i was, I became a stronger and more assertive me, but still keeping my gentleness. I have now gone back to my bookshelf to find it again, as i go through a difficult time to remind myself that i am strong, and that what i am doing is the right thing for me, this book helps me to think straight - it is very american,BUT, essentially the things Ms Dickson writes about, are common things amongst us women, and i would urge anyone to read it, I'm sure you will come out stronger from it and more understanding of yourself and of others. I now have to order another one as my first one is falling apart!